Although I never get tired of it, talking technical all the time, like my previous article, becomes boring to many of our members. Therefore, it is good to talk about life and nontechnical topics sometimes. Therefore, in this post, I will talk about a subject that I have discussed with many people so far.
Is there really something wrong with buying luxury cars?
Well… if you feel good when people look at you while driving a luxury and expensive car, then there is something wrong. Sorry for saying this, but it is what specialists say. It is not my personal opinion. If you like people to see you driving an expensive car, and if it really makes you feel good, then there is something wrong that you should think about resolving, if resolving your problems matters to you. An unresolved problem can create different kinds of problems on different occasions that wasting money on luxury cars can be the smallest one.
Please also read this article about Warren Buffett, who is the legend of wisdom and mental health, to see how this super rich multi billionaire is still living in the same house and driving the same car he has bought decades ago, and he is still one of the happiest people in the world at the age of 92.
Psychologists say, those who fall in love at the first sight have at least 12 psychological problems. Let’s see if it is the same with those who love to buy luxury cars. Please note that owning a luxury car does not necessarily indicate the presence of any psychological, mental, or personality problems. However, when someone sacrifices many things to drive a luxury car, then there is something wrong that has to be noticed.
1. Low Self-esteem
There is a well-established correlation between low self-esteem and seeking external validation through the possession of expensive things like luxury cars. People with low self-esteem often feel insecure about themselves and may seek to strengthen and boost their sense of self-worth by acquiring expensive possessions that they believe will increase their status and prestige in the eyes of others.
This behavior can become a form of validation-seeking, as the person looks to external sources of approval to feel good about themselves. They may become preoccupied with material possessions as a way to compensate for their feelings of inadequacy, and may place an excessive emphasis on the status or perceived value of these possessions.
However, seeking external validation through material possessions is ultimately a shallow and temporary form of validation that does not address the underlying issues of low self-esteem. In fact, this behavior can often lead to a cycle of greater insecurity, as the person becomes dependent on external validation to feel good about themselves, rather than developing a sense of self-worth that comes from within.
It is important to note that not all individuals who seek validation through material possessions have low self-esteem, and not all individuals with low self-esteem engage in this behavior. However, there is a significant correlation between the two, and it is important for individuals who engage in this behavior to be aware of the underlying psychological factors that may be driving their actions.
2. Anxiety Disorder
There is also a correlation between anxiety disorders and seeking external validation through possession of expensive things. People with anxiety disorders may experience feelings of fear or apprehension that are often linked to their perceived lack of control over their environment or their own thoughts and emotions.
To cope with these feelings, some individuals with anxiety disorders may develop a preoccupation with material possessions as a way to gain a sense of control over their lives. This can become a form of validation-seeking, as the person looks to external sources of approval to feel good about themselves and to manage their anxiety.
Additionally, individuals with anxiety disorders may also use material possessions as a way to cope with the social pressures and expectations that they face. They may believe that owning luxury cars and other expensive things will help them fit in with social groups or gain approval from others, which can further fuel their preoccupation with material possessions.
However, like with low self-esteem, seeking external validation through material possessions is ultimately a shallow and temporary form of validation that does not address the underlying issues of anxiety. In fact, this behavior can often exacerbate anxiety symptoms by perpetuating a cycle of insecurity and dependence on external validation.
It is important for individuals with anxiety disorders to seek appropriate treatment and support to manage their symptoms and address the underlying causes of their anxiety, rather than relying on luxury cars as a coping mechanism.
Balance Is Extremely Important
Balance is very important in what we do. If we lose our balance we will make mistakes. Therefore, we must always avoid doing the things that upset our balance. Before taking any actions, we must analyze and foresee the consequences. Falling in love with expensive things like luxury cars, that attract others’ attention, is already a big sign of imbalance. Professionals whose balance is important to them can also afford to buy luxury cars. But, if they see that they have an unusual desire to do this, instead of following their desire, they will look for the problem that has created it, and will try to resolve it as soon as possible.