Would you rather never argue with your partner/spouse or never have misunderstandings?

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This is a hard question to answer because arguments could be over a misunderstanding but also over something else to minor or major. I guess if I just had to choose it would be misunderstanding because arguments are way more complicated.

My husband and I rarely argue, and when we do, it’s usually over a misunderstanding. So I’ll take no misunderstandings, though they are good to learn from. Some of our biggest “heated discussions” have lead to amazing understanding and solidifying of our marriage in the end.

Never have misunderstandings because those definitely can cause fights

Understanding in a relationship is absolute

I think both are healthy in a relationship. My husband and I have had misunderstandings that have ended up in arguments.  You learn your limits in both and when it is time to walk away and take a breather. Most of the time we agree to disagree at the end of the day, and life goes on.