I have never experienced such, and I don’t hope to
No disrespect, this is one thing I used to always say..
I learned a very long time ago to ‘not say never ‘..
bad things seem to worm its way to me.
That will be when I had a friend insisting on visiting and I refused for reasons I don’t even know but it was my one decision I took and never regretted cause I later found out the person is deceitful and can’t be trusted 
yea u went with your intuition & that’s good..
can’t be too trusting of others especially by letting them into your life

Very wise. At the end of the day your choice speaks volumes.
=)