Why is it so hard to find true love??

Before I married my first husband I thought I would never find true love but he was my soul mate. He died too young. But I was lucky to have had it 2 times. So it does happen and sometimes even 2 times.

People are more complex than the idea of love The idea of “true love” often suggests effortless certainty. Real relationships involve ambiguity, negotiation, habits, stress, family histories, fears, and changing identities.

Lack of trust

Because, most people are not interested in love but are lusting after what the spouse can offer

That is lust has taken the place of love in our current generation

Maybe because many of us chase the idea of love more than we build the reality of it. Expectations, fear, past hurt, and poor communication often get in the way more than we do.

What do you think will change that?

It’s only hard to find true love when you start flaunting money around.