The advice I received was to be at peace with the decision you make regarding caring for others and don’t be mad if others don’t make the same decision as you. And don’t let others dismiss your decision. They have to live with their regret.
This may seem a little cryptic but without going into a long story, this is what i got it boiled down to.
Make your own decision..
In any situation .. if you are not happy with something: you either make decision to change soemthing or if you don’t .. you passively still do.. “ as for everything to remain the same”
we live in our minds so many possible scenarios- but in reality it’s much quicker and less problematic to simply act upon it.
