I would mind my own business because I do not want to be the one breaking someone’s marriage. One day the husband or the wife of the person would find out for themselves.The truth will always come out no matter how careful you are.
Thank you Virginia. That’s non of your business, I understand. I appreciate your comment.
You are welcome Hillary. Have a blessed day
I would put myself in the shoes of the spouse that was cheated on because I would want someone letting me know if my husband was unfaithful to me.
also people are killed by the side chick
or diagnosed with a sexual disease
I would inform the spouse and tell them to wait until that person went to work then get your things and go to a relative or friends’ home that the spouse doesn’t know the address to and then plan your next steps
Thank you for your comment, Elizabeth.
your welcome
I have been cheated on my my ex-husband and to be honest if anyone close to me knew and did not tell me I would certainly feel betrayed by them. I mean yes of course ultimately it was my ex-husband that cheated and I would deal with it accordingly but I would feel cheated on twice if a close friend or family member knew. Now if it were coming from an associate or a distant someone I may or may not believe them. I know some will say “stay out of their business” but they made it your business if you caught them cheating. I get wanting to protect peoples emotions and feelings but how can you live with a lie or knowing the person cheated and knowing the other person doesn’t know. I would rather lose a friendship or family member for standing on truth then holding onto a secret or lie.
I meant *by not *my
I understand the pain, Sherry. I appreciate your comment.
Just keep in mind, I won’t report because I am not sure how is going between in their relationship.
Thank you, Dim.
That is a tough one to answer. I’m not sure how I would go about it. I have never been put in that situation.
You can as well decide to assume everything, Katlyn. Thank you for your comment.
Yes I would. Because if I didn’t, then they’d continue to cheat because they’re getting away with it.
If it we’re me, and someone saw my boyfriend/husband cheating I’d hope that they would come tell me right away. End it now before things get worse, getting the other woman pregnant, or he getting an STD then coming back and giving it to me, etc.
I appreciate your concern Angela. You wouldn’t remain silence when bad things unfolds. Otherwise thanks for your comment.
No I wouldn’t one because that is a lot of heart ache to endure and two I would be frowned upon and called a troublemaker instead of being thanked because of that person not wanting to know that it’s true and three more than likely he or she already suspect that something is going on because when people cheat things in a relationship change they stop doing things that they used to do with you a sure sign that something is not right.
You wouldn’t be a whistle blower. Thank you for the comment.
You’re welcome Hillary
To be honest, I don’t know how I would react. I’ve never been in such a situation. One side of me is telling me – yes, tell about him or her, but another side says – leave it. It will come out sooner or later.
You can even say, for the owner to monitor by him or herself. Otherwise thanks for your comment.
Yes definitely, that’s a good idea, Hillary.
I’ve been in that situation before and it’s best to stay out of it ( lesson learned ) it was my sister’s husband who cheated and I found out about it and of course I told my sister, long story short it’s best to just stay quiet and stay out of it, it just brings a lot of chaos and drama to your life.
I understand, Gina. Thanks for the comment.
You’re welcome
Absolutely stay out of it. They will turn on you quicker than anything. It’s none of my business.
Thank you for your comment.
You are welcome!

Thank you Ann. I love your comment.