I was brought up to be a Gentlemen, so i open doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk at all times so my wife is safer on the inside of the sidewalk. I open the car door for her. I get up when someone leaves the table. i am always polite and helpful to others. there is more but i don’t want to bore you. I find it difficult at times to be myself, i get rude comments lots of pointing and laugh, even some people get up in my face. Do you have trouble being your self when your out? Second part should we transform to the times we live in?
Jorge, you have a duplicate question for this one, nevertheless I am rewriting my answer. You are awesome guy and your wife and son are lucky for being you. I admire your being gentle and loving. Keep up always.
Its a difficult question to answer, during those times that I am financially dependent its quite hard for me to be myself. Its really hard to decide on my own regarding financial matters.
But now its different as I am earning my own money its easy to be on my own although for respect I still have to let my hubby on financial matters.
Epifania, Thank you for answering both questions, i do apologize for the double question. Thank you for your open honest answer. Your support encouragement and kindness are unequaled, i also like your sense of humor. Thank you for being you!!! I love it!!!
I did for a long time, but no more. I know I am a good person and I do my best.
Judy my friend, your are an amazing person. Thank you for your answer and many more Thank you’s for all the help, encouragement and support you have given me!!!
Hey Jorg. I so admire you. You inspire me. I am on vacation right now with very little internet access. Finally getting some rest, going on boat rides, fishing and having camp fires. You have the best day ever!!!
Have a great holiday and a well deserved rest. See you when you return!!!
Thanks Jorg. Sitting in a chair in the lake. So beautiful here!!!
Me no I personally don’t have a problem speaking my mind. People will take advantage of you and walk all over you if you let them. It’s important to say what’s on your mind . You don’t have to be rude or mean necessarily to let someone know that you don’t want them in your space. Just tell them in a nice manner keep your distance. If they want to get ignorant just tell them it’s about respect and that you don’t like someone in your space like that. If you don’t speak up at least at some point you will start to regret it. It’s not healthy to keep things bottled up.
I love the answer it has direction and kindness, Thank you Jacqueline. Your are also very inspirational in the community its great to see. Raising everyone’s spirit to do better. Thank you for all the positive energy you bring to us!!!
No problem it all love thank you for noticing Jorg
I don’t have hard time being me. In fact I thank God for having created me a unique person. Every body is unique to him or herself. Even identical twins are never the same. I think the way I think, because it is me and I really appreciate that. We are unique beings.
I admire your inner strength and you always have a direct answer to the questions. Open and honest as you see it. That’s wonderful, Thank you Hillary, i like you My friend!!!
I use to have a hard time being myself bc I feel left out and alone but I learned to embrace my time alone bc it helped me to get closer to God so I just use my alone time to talk to my best friend who is always with me at all times because he comforts me in my time of need.
Thank you Lakeshia!! Great answer, i love that you found a way to help yourself. Faith is Awesome it gives you inner strength you never new you had!!!
You is welcome and I thank you for your response. It’s very much appreciated. I always try to find comfort in any hard situation, so that it makes me feel better when life tries to make you feel down and out of place and always my go to is to the most high bc if I can’t find comfort in earthlings I know God is always waiting to comfort and give me peace of mind so he is alway my one and only to depend on in my time of need.
God bless you Lakeshia!! Your Honesty and openness is heart warming!! Thank you so much!!!
You is welcome and it’s always good to be open and honest and I’m an open book. Thank you ❤️
No, I do not have a hard time being myself. I love being me. I don’t know about transforming, 100% to the times we live in. As far as, whether one should transform to the times, it depends on what we are transforming too. As long as it doesn’t take away or destroy you, I guess it would be okay. I am okay with me.
Thank you Phyllis!!!! You are the amazingly Awesome Luckscout Angel. I love what you wrote, but i relly do have to say i Love that 1000 Watt smile every time i see it i have to smile!!!
You are just too kind, my friend! You are an awesome young man and we are very fortunate to have you in this amazing community that we have! We love your smile as well! Keep smiling and great job!
Not sure how to answer this one, but i think I do have a struggle being myself around others as I’ve always had to bite my tongue!
Hey Kevin, I like just the way you are, You have so many great quality’s. Thank you my friend for your answer!!! Be you, you are Amazingly Awesome!!!
Right to the point, you say it like it is and i love that!! Carole you are resilient and a fighter, i love that too. Here’s to us being our self’s, may all our dream come true and our battles end in Victory!!! Thank you Carol for your answer and Take care!!