I was brought up to be a Gentlemen, so i open doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk at all times so my wife is safer on the inside of the sidewalk. I open the car door for her. I get up when someone leaves the table. i am always polite and helpful to others. there is more but i don’t want to bore you. I find it difficult at times to be myself, i get rude comments lots of pointing and laugh, even some people get up in my face. Do you have trouble being your self when your out? Second part should we transform to the times we live in?
Jorge, you have a duplicate question for this one, nevertheless I am rewriting my answer. You are awesome guy and your wife and son are lucky for being you. I admire your being gentle and loving. Keep up always.
Its a difficult question to answer, during those times that I am financially dependent its quite hard for me to be myself. Its really hard to decide on my own regarding financial matters.
But now its different as I am earning my own money its easy to be on my own although for respect I still have to let my hubby on financial matters.

Epifania, Thank you for answering both questions, i do apologize for the double question. Thank you for your open honest answer. Your support encouragement and kindness are unequaled, i also like your sense of humor. Thank you for being you!!! I love it!!!