From experience: I may have been rude with my response, but they were rude for asking me something that did not pertain to them.
- I said, “It’s personal” and with that look and nothing else was said.
- I said, “It’s none of your business” and nothing else was said.
- I said, “It’s nothing that I care to talk about” and nothing else was said.
Judy, you are too nice to make those responses.

Those are great responses Phyllis. Thank you!