I was brought up to be a Gentlemen, so i open doors, walk on the outside of the sidewalk at all times so my wife is safer on the inside of the sidewalk. I open the car door for her. I get up when someone leaves the table. i am always polite and helpful to others. there is more but i don’t want to bore you. I find it difficult at times to be myself, i get rude comments lots of pointing and laugh, even some people get up in my face. Do you have trouble being your self when your out? Second part should we transform to the times we live in?

Thank you Epifania for warm kind answer. You are an amazingly brilliant vibrant member of this community and its an privilege to be your Friend!!!