I like a good balance of both. I do like being in control of situations that I know about and understand. In those situations, if I am not in control, I tend to get anxious and stress out.
In situations I don’t know about, I don’t mind bring directed because I don’t think i would make the best of decisions if I dont understand or wasn’t knowledgeable on the topic. Maybe directed is a better word rather than being controlled.

Thank you, Jill, for your comment.