That’s a hard one for me. When I met my husband for the first time in person (we met on eHarmony) I had a feeling I would marry him… “falling in love” and “lusting in love” are TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS…our relationship took some blows early on and I even got cold feet before our wedding… I was ready to bolt… NO ONE has ever tried to fight for me like my husband did… bless him… my answered prayer on so many levels.
We celebrated our 6 year dating anniversary weekend before V-day and will be celebrating our 5 year wedding anniversary in September.
He loves me even on my worst day, and vice versa. He gets on my dang nerves and I am a lot worse lol BUT I love him anyways. Marriage and relationships take A LOT of work…movies LIE!
You’re right. No matter how you fall in love, it takes work and strong commitment to hold on through the hard times. This year will be my 30th anniversary with my husband.