For me it is dependent on a few factors. Who has done me wrong. I.e if it was a work colleague compared to an immediate family member as I’d have a lot more tolerance and leniency towards a family member. Also the type of wrong it is as some can’t be forgiven. I always like to take time away before making decisions of importance. If someone is not conducive to my life, generally they have no place in it, again immediate family members are different such as siblings.
Forgiving someone outside of your love one hits different, IMO