I forgive others for myself not for those who hurt me if that makes sense, because nine times out of ten they don’t even care to have your forgiveness but in order for you to heal, thrive, and move on you need to forgive them for your own peace of mind and stay away and learn from the lesson.
This I agree with. I forgive not because of what the person has done, but to release the hurt that was endured. To heal the heart.