Yes and No!
I guess the phrase “kill em with kindness” goes a long way! I have a limit, don’t use me and abuse my kindness. I have neighbors that I have helped, and we are friendly, and I have neighbors who I felt only used me and be around me to get what they want and then act like they don’t see me when passing by. So don’t act like you see me when you need something because now I don’t hear u. If children are involved, I will gladly feed them.
Yes, I would help someone regardless of how they treated me. Outside of helping them, I don’t have to talk to them. But just because they are a jerk or a rude doesn’t mean I need to be spiteful and no help.
Thank you!! if the other person can’t be good, there is no reason I can’t be.
That is true!

I like your response, thank you for commenting!