There is to a degree both, however you shape your own future, desires and destiny, you just got to be ready to take charge and roll with the punches and all the other curve balls that are flung in your direction. If you hit some, then it’s not the end of the world, you just pick yourself up, dust yourself off and carry on like nothing has happened
I appreciate both of you.
Absolutely Heidi, there are so many, and I am only 39, so Imagine I have a lot more to come, but yes I definitely feel better about things afterwards and feel that I am ready to face that challenge head on next time. Thank you Larhonda,
You’re very welcome Ben.

I completely agree, Ben. It’s a blend of both fate and taking control of your own destiny. Life throws its fair share of challenges, but it’s about picking yourself up and moving forward. Have you had experiences where you’ve had to navigate through these curveballs and come out stronger?