l think the both is fine, physical attraction first before considering the mental
Physical attraction often matters more in short-term interest. Mental attraction becomes far more important in long-term relationships, friendships, strong partnerships, and real trust rely heavily on mental and emotional connection.
Thanks so much Oludolamu Morenike for you’re answer to the Question
Both, but mental attraction is more important to me than physical appearance. It’s nice to have both!!!
I agree with you Teresa, both is so important for true.
Thanks for your answer..
You’re welcome Anthony ☺️ have a nice evening my friend
Both, tbh
Me too, both
So true Rafiu Bolade
I appreciate you answering my questions
Mental attraction first
Thanks Samuel Anigbo for your Answer
In most healthy, lasting relationships Mental attraction is more important,
but physical attraction still matters.
But which one is most important depends on what kind of relationship you’re talking about and where you are in life.
I’m going to go with mental attraction
Thank you for you’re answer Eric Elders
well appreciated..
Physical usually comes first then mental thats the way the world works, but mental comes first for me then physical
Hi Jacqueline Lee Durden,
that is so true.
Thank you so much I really appreciate
your answer.
You’re welcome Anthony
Mental first and if the attraction is there, then that’s the gravy.
Thank you Phyllis Cobbins
That’s so right Mental first,
Thank you so much,
Phyllis Cobbins.
Yes Mental First.
You are welcome, Anthony!
Physical attraction is great for that initial spark and chemistry. It’s exciting and can be a lot of fun. However, it might not be enough on its own for a lasting, meaningful relationship.
Mental attraction tends to build stronger, more lasting connections. When you’re mentally and emotionally attracted to someone, you enjoy talking to them, sharing ideas, and building a life together. This kind of connection is often more fulfilling in the long run.
Ideally, a mix of both is the best. Physical attraction can keep the relationship exciting, while mental attraction ensures that you have a strong, supportive partnership. Focusing solely on one can lead to imbalance, so finding someone who appeals to you both physically and mentally is often the key to a healthy, happy relationship.
Thank you Lakeshia Gray, everything you have said I totally agree, both works Physical attraction, Mental attraction, Great
Mental attraction is very important which can lead to physical attraction if we feel a connection to that person
Thank you so much,
Bryony Rose Driver,
Mental attraction
I agree with you Bryony,
setting the foundations
building a strong connection…
Physical attraction usually attracts people but eventually you’ll need to show substance.
Thank you so much Alexander Almanzar,
show substance,
right on point.
Mental attraction outweighs the physical.
Thank you Jill Dirken, so true,
What sweet for the eyes, can also be bitter for the belly.

Physical attraction is easy to recognize: you see someone and feel it or you don’t. Mental attraction requires conversation, patience, and emotional openness.
Thanks so much Rafat Abimbola for you’re answer to the question