I really try to be positive even if things are g to my taste but I don’t like someone with bad manners or who doesn’t have a good moral compass. I think being nice is something everyone should be capable of so I don’t like genuinely just negative bad people.
Being negative can hurt everyone. So I get that. Even if it is family and they treat you like crap, you can walk away. You are responsible for you, how you handle things, and how you react.