I’m happy to leave one living in the corner or ignore one running across the floor, I know there are no dangerous spiders here and they hunt other pests.
I lose all that cool if I see one actually on me though 😂 I do a very quick and thorough shake down
It’s not totally irrational! I’ve been bitten by spiders and even though they aren’t dangerous it can still be very unpleasant

Yes them being on my is different I have taken off my clothes in a blind panic