I dont agree hun. Because I’ve become the problem from the environment and treatments/traumatising events that were bestowed upon me. I might be a problem for you but that’s because I was spoiled or neglected by my parents (for example). I was a single child in a 1 parent family, my mum worked evenings, after school I playes with friends over the park, all of a sudden I was selling drugs, fighting people who disrespected me. All of a sudden a good woman gave birth to my child and said I was a bad partner, I never saw my baby, because I don’t like being disrespected. (For example). I have been programmed to be who I am.
It takes a village to raise a child.
P.S. None of the above relates to me – I’m perfect* and bring the sunshine. Ive been truly blessed with my upbringing… oh wait, my nieve hardworking parenta did everything for me, I didn’t realise I would have to work hard for a living. Am I poor because I’m lazy or because I didn’t realise how hard my parents worked for me?