I don’t like milk in my coffee or tea, but here in the UK it’s popular. I can have milk in a smoothie but not in coffee. I only allow myself to have it at meetings where there’s no good black coffee 🫣 For me it has to be whole bean coffee, preferably freshly ground (I grind it at home) with a maximum of 1 teaspoon of sugar. Pure poetry of taste 😉
Strong coffee only when I need a quick kick. I usually drink medium

Oh! wow. Do you drink it strong or weak?