Have you ever disliked someone but became friends later. For me they way I became best of friends with my friend was really funny. We were working at the same place but different departments. I would see her and never say good morning and she would do the same. Now what happened was really God’s work. We met in one of the butcheries she bought meat and turkey. Accidentally I grabbed one of her bags. So when I got home I discovered there was turkey in one of the bags. Straight away I knew it was this lady’s bag. I kept it in the fridge and the following day I took it to work and asked her whether it was hers. This was first time I spoke to her. She was so happy and thanked me. She commented that I was very honesty. That was how our friendship started. I discovered she was really a nice person down to earth and I had no reason to dislike her.
Not exactly friends, but definitely saw each other on much better terms.
I had a coworker at one of my old jobs that I could not see eye to eye with. We fought openly at work, it was a mess.
But we oddly bonded after a death in her family and we became much more friendly and understanding after that. She’s stubborn for sure, but she’s not evil by any means. I was happy we could mend that relationship.
No, but I will say I can still be cordial with someone although I may not necessary care for them because of how they have treated me.
Thanks Alexis for your answer.
Yes of course. We both dated the same lady and became enemies but we became friends later
Yes l have dislike someone we later became friends
Yes l have dislike someone who later became my friend
Your so welcome Rose
Yes
Years back I hated my present best friend because I felt she never shared things and was always to serious.
But the amount of care that she extended when I feel sick and was left behind by my other friends.i became emotional attached to her since then.we are 6 months as bestie
Thanks Obianwu for your answer. Sometimes we are quick to judge others unitl they do someting out of ordinary that is when we realise that they are nice people.
I never experience disliking someone .
Thanks so much Jean for your answer.
Things like this do happen when the relationship is not well defined… Or the person in question feels that you two can be just friend with out intending to know how he or her partner feels About them
Thanks for your participation Gideon.
Yes, that’s back in school
Yeah at school I can only imagine. Thansk so much for your answer.
yes and that was during my school days
Thanks Gambari for your answer. School days are the most times people experince this kind of thing. I experineced that too but became frinds with the person who did not like me then till now.
When I was at school there was a girl in my class who was a really good tennis player. All our teachers used to favour her because tennis was a big thing at our school. Because of this I disliked her because she always seemed to be the favourite and got so much praise and attention but when I went into sixth form I got to know her a lot better and realised that she was actually a great friend. Sometimes you can be influenced by other people and their reactions. Now I try to give everyone a fair chance.
Very true I agree with you Joanne. Sometimes we dislike others because of what other people have said about that individual before we get to them oursleves.. Thanks so much for your answer.
Yes, sometimes first impression could be wrong or right. But the best thing is not to judge, carefully get to know the person, then you can now know the real person
You are right Kayode. It is always right to get to know the person before judging them, Thanks so much for your answer.
No not personally
Thanks so much for your answer. Dameon
Sorry Damon I think I spelt your name wrongly but could not retrieve the message to change it.
No, I have not experienced that I recall. I like everyone❣
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