Happiness depends on your state of mind just think about it when you are upset complaining and or mad no one feels happy in that state but when you make up your mind that you are not going to allow anyone to steal your joy or upset your peace and when you don’t allow anyone in your space that causes havoc or disruption ask yourself How happy do you feel? When you don’t have to deal with the unnecessary shenanigans someone else wants to bring to the table to me that brings peace of mind and happiness.