I’d rather always be 20 minutes early but my husband is a slowpoke so we are normally late for everything. However if those were the choices I would stick with the early because I can always sit in the car or offer to help set up or calm my nerves depending on what the situation is.
Thank you, and you’re welcome

Awesome! I know your husband appreciates you very much! I can tell you are a very kind and loving wife! Yes, you make an excellent point! I would do the same! Thank you so much, Dawn for sharing with us!