If I had to choose, I’d probably let the money go. Reopening a chapter that’s already closed — especially for financial gain — could bring emotional complications or hurt that money can’t fix. Peace of mind and personal growth are worth more than 10 million naira (as tempting as it is!).
That said, everyone’s situation is different. If there’s genuine love, mutual growth, and willingness to reconnect for the right reasons — not just the money — that’s a personal choice. But if it’s purely transactional? Probably not worth the emotional cost.
