That’s a timeless question. In my view, it’s both, but in different phases:
· Feeling first: Love often starts as an involuntary emotion—a strong attraction, chemistry, or connection you don’t fully control.
· Choice second: Long-term love is sustained by choice. It’s the decision to stay committed, to act with kindness even when you don’t feel like it, and to prioritize someone else’s happiness daily.
So the initial “falling in love” might be a feeling, but staying in love is a conscious choice.
Kelvin thanks for sharing.