When you study this question critically, you’d come to realize the honest truth that that very huge gap and burden lies on the soft tender but form shoulders of the mother, I’m saying this as a young man who has been very observant with happenings around my home and that of my pals. Men sometimes can be a little stiff and wouldn’t want to do any emotional job of course, they frown when they’re supposed to cry, they stay silent when they’re supposed to put out their hearts and say it as it’s supposed to be said. “A man gotta be a man” they mumble. But women, especially mothers go all out and fill in any emotional void a man’s stiffness has created especially with the kids. This is not always the case but I think it’s very popular if you have taken care to notice.