I have seen a lot of marriages fail when children are born. This seems to put excessive stress on a lot of couples
The root causes seem to be getting married for the wrong reasons in the first place, lack of love, lack of friendship, lack of understanding
but the determining factor is commitment- are the couple committed to each other or is one or both looking for a way out
Thanks for that commitment note. Many can’t keep to their commitments truly, it expires after few years

Lack of commitment, understanding and love