Red flags: lack of communication, sneakiness, no job, always begging, always wanting to go out but never having any money, living with their ex, always asking for a ride somewhere, being young with many kids, not having any goals, etc. LOL THE LIST COULD GO ON FOREVER. BUT EVERY RED FLAG IS NOT A RED FLAG FOR EVERYBODY. SOME THINGS ARE DEAL BREAKERS FOR SOME, AND SOME RED FLAGS ARE NOT DEAL BREAKERS. IT JUST DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUAL.