What would be your advice if you were to advice intending couples to be based on your experience about marriage.
✳️For me I would tell them to base their love unconditionally.
✳️Pray together
✳️Each others weakness should be your basis for your intentions towards each other.
✳️ Everyone should handle their families when it comes to family misunderstanding between in-laws.
✳️Have a healthy third party
✳️ Communication is key no assumptions
✳️Do away with see finish on each other no matter what
✳️ Appreciate and compliment each other
✳️Show concern for each others career
✳️No comparison
✳️Honour and respect your husband
✳️No cheating of any kind or standard
✳️Build and maintain a godly home
✳️Be accountable
Entering a lifelong partnership is one of the most significant “projects” you will ever take on. While the wedding is a day, the marriage is a decades-long negotiation of values, habits, and growth.
Based on psychological research and common pitfalls in long-term relationships.
“Love is never enough ” your character should be solid with much tolerance and forgiveness.
Know Yourself First
Before marriage, understand your values, weaknesses, goals, and beliefs. If you don’t know yourself, it’s hard to build something strong with someone else.
2. Choose Character Over Chemistry
Attraction is good, but character keeps a marriage alive. Look for:
Respect
Honesty
Patience
Responsibility
Emotional maturity
Feelings can change. Character usually doesn’t.