It depends with the situation really. Sometimes we are the source of our own problems I should say.
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I dont agree hun. Because I’ve become the problem from the environment and treatments/traumatising events that were bestowed upon me. I might be a problem for you but that’s because I was spoiled or neglected by my parents (for example). I was a single child in a 1 parent family, my mum worked evenings, after school I playes with friends over the park, all of a sudden I was selling drugs, fighting people who disrespected me. All of a sudden a good woman gave birth to my child and said I was a bad partner, I never saw my baby, because I don’t like being disrespected. (For example). I have been programmed to be who I am.
It takes a village to raise a child.
P.S. None of the above relates to me – I’m perfect* and bring the sunshine. Ive been truly blessed with my upbringing… oh wait, my nieve hardworking parenta did everything for me, I didn’t realise I would have to work hard for a living. Am I poor because I’m lazy or because I didn’t realise how hard my parents worked for me?
People determine which path they are going to take through life by the decisions they make. Now your parents could very well play a part in your decision making simple because of the way that they raised you, but ultimately. Can’t blame them totally because we have the last word. It is up to the individual person as to what you choose to do whether it be good, bad or indifferent. So yeah, we can possibly be the source of our own problems. Just depends on what you chose to do.
The human race are the source of are own problems if we could all just get along the world would be a better place
I believe we are to some extent.
I dont agree hun. Because I’ve become the problem from the environment and treatments/traumatising events that were bestowed upon me. I might be a problem for you but that’s because I was spoiled or neglected by my parents (for example). I was a single child in a 1 parent family, my mum worked evenings, after school I playes with friends over the park, all of a sudden I was selling drugs, fighting people who disrespected me. All of a sudden a good woman gave birth to my child and said I was a bad partner, I never saw my baby, because I don’t like being disrespected. (For example). I have been programmed to be who I am.
It takes a village to raise a child.
P.S. None of the above relates to me – I’m perfect* and bring the sunshine. Ive been truly blessed with my upbringing… oh wait, my nieve hardworking parenta did everything for me, I didn’t realise I would have to work hard for a living. Am I poor because I’m lazy or because I didn’t realise how hard my parents worked for me?
It would be a combination of things.Especially with this worldwide inflation problem much of the world is dealing with.Also climate change and then rampant crime.As for some personal problems such as lack of communication along with health problems such as excessive alcohol consumption and respiratory problems those can also be a making of one’s own problem.
Myriam thanks for sharing
No we’re not Jacqueline. If we were I’m sure I wouldn’t have half the problems I do.
Don’t ever be too hard on yourself, there are so many other factors that impact our lives. Family, social, environmental, ALL media, music.
Some have the power to change themselves and environment, some don’t. But how can a beautiful baby be responsible for anything.
You can say not all of us and that would be true but some of us are the source thanks you Lee for sharing
I’m sure we are the cause of some of our own problems but not intentionally.
Mitzi thank you for sharing
It would depend on the problem somethings are not our control like what animals do and things that are acts of god like the weather, or trees falling down ect.
Thank you for sharing Catherine
I believe we are certainly the source of many of them, but not all.
Thank you for sharing Cheryl
That is true I agree although most don’t want to admit it thanks for sharing Virginia