I would definitely tell him or her because t’s degrading, disrespectful and humiliating to not know and the one doing the cheating is likely carrying on like everything is good. The one being cheated on has a right to know so they can move on and possibly find someone with the same morals. I’ll personally never understand why people take vows with all this honor and cherish just to break every promise made. There’s plenty of people in the world who want that kind of open marriage so why crush someone’s heart who doesn’t. There’s no honor or respect in betrayal the bottom line is with out a doubt I would tell him or her.
This is a good thing to avoid at all costs because there is no reason to waste more time with cheaters.
That’s right Truman.
If it’s not my business, it’s not my business so I will stay out of it
Thanks for your comment. I like the way you are putting it “mind your own business”.
Your welcome, it just makes sense I suppose
No, I wouldn’t say anything. I believe that’s a situation between the people directly involved. Getting involved could make things worse or drag me into something that’s not mine to fix. Everyone has their own choices to make, and it’s not my role to play judge or messenger in someone else’s relationship.
Thank you Denise.
Look the other way
Situations like this could get messy. I would approach with caution and pray about it.
Thank you Alexis for your comment.
You are welcome Hillary. Thank you!
I will report him to his wife if I saw him cheating.
I like your courage, Riz. Thanks for your comment.
That’s a tough one morally. I would probably stay out of it.
That’s that’s nice, Lee I appreciate your comment.
I would definitely stay out of it. That’s none of my business.
You will definitely stay out of it Gabrielle. Thank you for your comment.
Yes I would say something. I would feel guilty knowing about it and not saying anything to this person I know.
You are right, Ann you will inform the husband or the wife. Thanks you for your comment.
Family members or close friends? Absolutely.
Strangers or acquaintances? That’s another story since that’s none of my business. It would depend on the situation.
You are good Andrea and thanks for your comments.
I too do not like confrontation; However, I have ran across one of my close classmates in college of her husband having a profile on a dating website I was on…. I screenshotted his profile and the conversations.. that conversation did not last long. As heartbreaking as it is she ended up finding out from other friends about his infidelity.
Honestly, if it is your friend I would nonchalantly be like, hey man, is everything ok with you and your wife? (Just small talk, if he asks bring it up). I saw your wife at so and so, and she wasn’t with you… it could be a brother, cousin or someone else. But it also could be her identical twin sister and not her… My sisters are identical twins and they get this all the time.
Thank you for your comment, Jenni.
I would stay out of it. Who knows what the situation really is.
I would definitely want to know if my husband was cheating on me so I would report it.
No I would report either it’s a secret I would keep .
Thank you, Jean. It is a secret.
No. I feel it inappropriate to get involved in someone else’s business.