I was young and sitting at my fiances moms house while he went to work out of town. I was boohooing when l discovered he was cheating thinking poor me and whats she got i dont. His mom came in and gave me the best advice of young adult life. She said Amber did u do anything wrong? I was taken back but answered, “No mamm.” She then said,” then stop punishing yourself stupid.” Still great advice to this day.

If u ask your partner , in life ,in business, in general to do something for you, with you, or to you, and they tell you no. Then Im sorry My friend you did not ask the right way. I know it sounds kinda messed up but this applies to all partnerships not just relationships.