We all know saying, have your cake and eat it, but what does it mean?
My understanding of this phrase means you can want two different things, but can only have one. What sort of situations do you think you can have your cake and eat it?
I think some of the times, one needs a personal decisions to make things work through. For example, one cannot keep going around, ask people to help on his financial future. Some will just misadvise, unless you can hire a professional.
I think I get what you mean, you can have everything you want, if you make the right descions?