Let them know that I can relate and understand. I would also let them know that they are not alone but I would be that shoulder to lean on and that listening ear. Not all the time a person is looking for a response or an answer but more so someone to just listen.
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I would tell them that if they need to talk to someone I am here for you. BUT PLEASE DO TALK TO SOMEONE.Not talking to someone will put you in a dark place that often doesn’t end well, sometime talking to someone helps to get it off your chest and helps to let it go whatever it is or to maybe help you to find the help you need but regardless I am here and I will pray for you