I would start by saying, I can see this a really tough time for you. I would reassure them by saying it is ok not to be ok and that it is alright to feel that way. I have to show to them that I don’t judge them and that I really care and willing to offer help. I would then say, if you want to talk about it, I want you to know that I am here for you. You are not alone in this. If they don’t feel confident talking to me I can ask them if they have considered seeking professional help. Not everyone is a Christian so I would seek consent if they are happy if I pray with them.