I would let them know first that I’m always going to there for them but from my experience with this I don’t think there’s anything to really say that’s gonna help them that’s something they have to find within them selves. I would be totally honest with them in the fact that it’s probably going to be one of the hardest things they will go through because learning to love yourself unconditionally is no easy task it’s so easy to love other people but we are our own worst critics crazy but true.