Unfortunately, I have never experienced that, so cant advise on that aspect. I have the opposite problem, where my husband has shut down and doesn’t communicate at all. Not even a silent treatment, just depression or things not going his way in life, hit so hard that he has mentally and physically shut down. I’d actually appreciate him nagging at some point.
Thank you and I hope you come up with an idea how to deal with the nagging.

I’m sorry to hear that Dawn, prayers sweet friend