When family dynamics are unstable, your financial information is your most valuable asset. If people know you have money, they often find “emergencies” for you to solve.
The “Need-to-Know” Basis: You don’t have to lie, but you don’t have to be transparent. If asked, your standard line should be: “Money is tight right now,” or “Everything is tied up in bills.”
Automate Savings: Set up an automatic transfer to a savings account the same day you get paid. If you never see the money in your checking account, you’re less likely to spend it or offer it up.
Go Paperless: Ensure all bank statements and financial notifications are sent to a private email address, not a physical mailbox where family members might see them.
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Wow thank you i will try that
I’D HAVE TO SAY THAT, THAT PERSON HAS TO BE VERY FOCUSED AND STRONG ALL AROUND. BECAUSE NOT ONLY ARE THEY DEALING WITH THEIR FAMILY PROBLEMS AND THEIR OWN PERSONAL ONES, WE ALSO CAN’T FORGET ABOUT OUR SOCIAL LIVES. THE LIFE WE HAVE TO LIVE OUT THERE IN ORDER TO MAKE MONEY SO WE CAN PROVIDE FOR OUR LOVED ONES OR OURSELVES. SAVING IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY, ESPECIALLY IF YOUR DEALING WITH FAMILY PROBLEMS AND OTHER IMPORTANT THINGS LIKE HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL. WITHOUT LOOSING IT ALL. WHAT COMES TO MIND IS:
~ TALK TO SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR THINK YOU KNOW WHO MAY HAVE GONE THROUGH THE SAME THING YOUR DEALING WITH. FIND OUT WHAT, WHO, WHERE, WHEN AND HOW THEY DID IT. ASK QUESTIONS YOU THINK THEY MAY KNOW THE ANSWER TOO OR ARE CURIOUS ABOUT. WE WON’T KNOW THE ANSWER(S’) WE’RE LOOKING FOR UNLESS WE ASK QUESTION(‘S).
~ IF YOU HAVE THE TIME AND MONEY THEN SPEND IT ON SOME PROFESSIONALS WHO MOST LIKELY WOULD KNOW AND/OR HAVE THE ANSWER(S’) YOUR SEARCHING FOR.
~ JUST DIG WAY DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOURSELF BECAUSE SOMEWHERE INSIDE YOU, YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH AND POWER TO DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE AND YOU KNOW THAT IS TO SAVE MONEY.
~ IF IT IS THAT IMPORTANT THEN WE WILL ALWAYS FIND A WAY, MAKE A WAY AND TRY TRY AGAIN EVEN IF WE MUST FAIL OVER AND OVER AGAIN. HOPEFULLY BY THEN THINGS HAVE BEEN LEARNED ALONG THE WAY AND YOU’VE GAINED KNOWLEDGE AND GET CLOSER TO FIGURING OUT THE SAVING MONEY SITUATION.
SORRY IF I DIDN’T HELP AT ALL, BUT I DID THROW SOME IDEAS OUT THERE THAT YOU CAN STEW ON. I HOPE I SAID THAT RIGHT.
Of you really help alot thanks for this wonderful contribution i really appreciate it
Focus on how to get an income, then create passive income streams, save enough to invest. Be disciplined with your spending. Repeat the cycle.
Thank you for your opinion i would really appreciate if you would recommend any Verified passive income generating business someone can go into??
By first acknowledging the simple fact that you can’t solve all your family problems and if you go down, you’re probably on your own
Thank you for your answer

THAT’S SOME PRETTY GOOD ADVICE YOU GAVE THERE. NICE AND TRUE.