How can someone that has family problems save move?

When family dynamics are unstable, your financial information is your most valuable asset. If people know you have money, they often find “emergencies” for you to solve.
​The “Need-to-Know” Basis: You don’t have to lie, but you don’t have to be transparent. If asked, your standard line should be: “Money is tight right now,” or “Everything is tied up in bills.”
​Automate Savings: Set up an automatic transfer to a savings account the same day you get paid. If you never see the money in your checking account, you’re less likely to spend it or offer it up.
​Go Paperless: Ensure all bank statements and financial notifications are sent to a private email address, not a physical mailbox where family members might see them.